I ponder upon this question, a lil bit more and then finally get to the conclusion that I won’t be getting an answer to that anytime soon.
Sometimes, I react unwisely in a silly way on certain lil things but for big ones, I try to make the wisest decision by weighing everything, measuring the rights and the wrongs. Does it make any sense? Hmph.
I see some people, making big or small decisions by not pondering so much, just in the spur of the moment, giving in to their crazy heart desires, knowing that they are being weak and accepting the wrong for themselves, not respecting themselves enough (or at all 😐), not worrying about the future, etc etc etc. But isn’t it all what even the big wise people tell us? To be all those things and to do all those things.
But is it okay, to just accept the offer only because your stupid, weak, disrespectful heart wants so and degrade yourself? Like, make decisions that you know are wrong but you are still having a go at it, just because your heart desires so, you only believe in living in the moment, only to go with the flow.
When you know very clearly that everything is at odds, there is lil or no truth to it, its unworthy of trust, you have already being cheated upon by the same thing before, but do it only because of your weakness. Would you still do it? Or would you still let your close ones do it? Only because it is bringing a lil tiny bit of happiness to them for now, giving them a new hope, and may be, just may be, by a miracle or reeeeeeally good luck…things will change and it would actually turn into the happy ending they are searching for? Or, should one just talk to them once and let them learn their own lesson? But there should be a bar on the number of mistakes that one is allowed to commit, right? Or that person is incapable of learning anything from it.
Ah! I don’t know. It was just something on my mind. And I am just rambling here.
I think I have become too wise now. I think a lot. Weigh everything a lot. Respect myself a lot. Don’t take even a tiniest bit of crap from anyone. Don’t fall for empty words. And now, if I see someone, especially someone close to me for whom I care a lot, I get upset if they don’t do the same. Some are even older than my age but act like a toddler 😤. Have made enough mistakes but haven’t learnt at all from them.
I sometimes don’t believe my eyes and my ears when they are doing all those naive things or say all those silly things in front of me. I am like…have you learnt nothing? Why give into desire like that? For all wrong reasons. Why not search for the truth? Or work on yourself first and trust me, a lot of improvement is needed in that department.
I mean just think, at least try to do the right thing. Learn from your experiences. Don’t be so naive. Make your heart stronger. Have some will power and above all, respect yourself and love yourself. Don’t let yourself stoop even a bit. Know what you don’t deserve. Don’t accept everything easily. Be hard on yourself because it’s you. It. Is. You. And you have to have the best. The best thing! Or at least the right thing. No question should rise in your head while thinking about the best. You are choosing the best because you are sure of the best. And the best is what would really make you happy and deserve all your effort.
Or may be…just go with the flow, be in the spur of the moment, give in to your weak heart and just wait for the blunder or a miracle to happen. 🙀 Isn’t this is how some reeeeeally lucky people get their happy ending and only the unlucky ones, like me, fall into the abyss of regret like this?
Or are they just accepting the wrong things because they are addicted to pain, have no control, believe in impossible miracles, like to take and give unlimited chances or are plain stupid?
I just believe that if you don’t do all this, sometime later in your life, you will regret it. I don’t know for being wise or for being unwise, but you will.
So, the question still stands…Is it unwise to be wise? Or is it wise to be unwise?